The Secret Sauce: Lessons from Ron and Ronit’s 20+ Year Marriage

While visiting Japan, we met an incredible couple, Ron and Ronit, who’ve been married for over 20 years. Even on a family vacation with two of their three sons, they made time for a date, showing how they keep their spark alive. Naturally, we couldn’t resist asking: What’s your secret to a happy, long-lasting relationship? 

Ronit’s advice was simple: "Don’t sweat the small stuff." She explained that problems will arise in any relationship, but instead of focusing on the annoyances, it’s better to enjoy more of the good times.

Ron offered his own gem of wisdom: "Take two minutes to process things." He shared how those two minutes can make all the difference and change the entire outcome of a conversation, preventing emotional reactions and allowing for more thoughtful responses.

Their advice is a powerful reminder that sometimes the key to a lasting relationship is in mastering the small habits: letting go of the little things and taking a moment to breathe.